Friday, August 29, 2008

Governor Palin and I Have Something in Common

I haven’t decided yet if picking Alaska Governor Sarah Palin as his running mate was a good choice for Senator McCain or not. I’m leaning toward not. It is starting to remind me of the whole Harriet Myers thing a few years ago. But that is not the point of this post….

The point is that Governor Palin and I are both members of the group Feminists For Life. It is a pro-life feminist organization. Taken from their website: "Feminists for Life recognizes that abortion is a reflection that our society has failed to meet the needs of women. We are dedicated to systematically eliminating the root causes that drive women to abortion—primarily lack of practical resources and support—through holistic, woman-centered solutions."


I really hope Governor Palin’s nomination will focus some attention on this awesome organization.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Why Don't People Like Me?

Marcus here.


I like to think that most people like me. I mean, I may not be everyone's favorite, but most people can at least tolerate to be around me. However, there are some people (mostly kids) who just don't like me for some reason. For instance, Amanda's little sister, Julie, used to be scared to death of me.

It's a funny story really. She was only 2 when I first met her, and I had bright red hair and a muppet-esque looking beard. If you've seen amanda's family, you can image that there is no one her family that looks anything like me; so, needless to say, julie would run screaming whenever I would enter the room. One time she was sitting on the floor eating a big bowl of ice cream when I walked in. She was so scared that she abandoned her iced treat and went screaming for daddy.

But suddenly, that simply changed. I don't know what caused it; all I know is that one day I was standing in their hallway when all of a sudden I hear the patting of little feet run up behind me, and I feel a pair of tiny hands slap me on the butt! I turn around and there's Julie's sweet little face grinning up at me. She giggled and ran away. At that point I knew she was ok with me.

Well, Julie turns 11 tomorrow, and I'm very happy that she's let me be a part of her family.

Happy birthday little sister.



-Marcus, SGB

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Smelly Amanda, Name Pending, and The Miss Sister Pageant

Last night Marcus and I took Blue out to eat at Red Robin to celebrate him living with us and going to CJC. We had fun, my chicken sandwich was AWESOME, but when we got home I totally smelled like Red Robin. I hate that. I had to change clothes and seriously considered washing my hair. The same thing happens at Chili’s, and I try to avoid eating there for this very reason. If I smell that much after being in the restaurant for an hour, I can’t imagine what the waiters and waitresses must smell like when they get home!

Our new kitten, name pending, is such a joy. Between the two of us Marcus and I have had a lot of kittens, but this one is by far the best. (Gus was a great kitten, but I think name pending has him beat). He likes playing and cuddling with Bailey, Emma, and Gus (Shiloh has not warmed up to him yet). He cuddles with me for most of the day, which does make it hard to get some work done, but it is very sweet. He has a great personality. The best way to describe him is that he has all the best qualities of a puppy, but with none of the hassles, mixed with the fun and easiness of a kitten. In short, name pending rocks!

I had a whole blog planned about an article I found on msnbc.com a couple of days ago. It seems that a priest was organizing a beauty pageant for nuns. Turns out that the idea didn’t go over very well with the higher ups in his diocese, so the pageant is already off. You can read about the pageant plan and its cancellation
here

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Democrats and Abortion

I came across a great article on abortion and democrats on msnbc.com today. You can read it here

The article critiques Senator Obama and Representative Pelosi specifically, and the Democratic Party in general about the way in which they discuss the issue of abortion.

As I’ve said before, the abortion issue is my only major disagreement with the Democratic Party. On the whole I agree with most of this article. It seems that in our current political climate one party has to be pro choice and one has to be pro life. Since the republicans are pro life, that leaves the pro choice position to the democrats. Because of this, democratic politicians have to be very careful how they talk about abortion, which often leads to nonsensical comments about the rights of the unborn.

Recently, the democrats have done a better job with the abortion issue than they have in the past. I for one would like to see politicians from both parties work together on programs that are likely to reduce the number of abortions. Women choose abortion because at the time, it seems like their best option. So if we can find out why women feel abortion is their best option, we can also find out ways to make carrying the baby to term a better option for these women. As long as this is done in such a way to not limit the ability of a woman to get an abortion if that is what she wants, there should be no reason for democrats not to get onboard. Of course this means that republicans must be willing to work on ways to reduce abortions, without making it more difficult for women to get them.

I think this is a much more practical approach to reducing abortions than the narrowly focused pro-life goal of overturning Roe vs. Wade. First of all, I don’t think it is likely to be overturned in the foreseeable future, so in my opinion it’s best to try to reduce abortions in other ways. Secondly, If Roe was overturned tomorrow; all the pro-choice groups would immediately get to work on reinstating it. And of course just because something is illegal doesn’t mean people refrain from doing it. In almost every culture, women have passed on ways to end a pregnancy. Abortion isn’t new, the legality of it is.


Sorry for such a heavy post, I just thought it was a great article.

Monday, August 25, 2008

what's playing on my ipod monday

I first heard today's song selection a few years ago while working out at Curves. They had a Motown CD that was just awesome. Of course the CD did not have the original versions of the songs, but kind of hokey workout remixes of them instead. I figured if I liked those versions then I would LOVE the real versions, so I bought a 2 CD Motown set on amazon that had most of the Curves songs on it. Sure enough, I love that set.

By far my favorite song from the Motown era is Stevie Wonder's Uptight (Everything's Alright), which he recorded in 1966. This video has a live performance of Uptight and A Place in the Sun, as well as an interview with Stevie Wonder. I wish I knew what show it was from.




Thursday, August 21, 2008

This is why I don't cook

My parents came to Abilene drop off my little brother yesterday. He is going live with us and go to Cisco Jr College this fall to get credits to transfer to SFA in the spring. Last night my dad decided he wanted to make some brownies after dinner. I didn't have any last night, and I thought there were some left tonight, but alas, when I went to get one they were all gone.

I was really craving them, so Marcus ran to the store to get some brownie mix. It has been forever since I cooked anything, including basic baking from a box. As I was putting the last ingredients into the mixing bowl, the eggs, I guess I wasn't really paying attention. The first egg went fine, I cracked it on the edge of the bowl, got the yolk in the bowl, then put the shell in the brownie box. For the secong egg, I cracked it on the side of the bowl and the put the yolk in the brownie box. I didn't realize what I had done until I went to put the shell in the brownie box. I immediately started laughing at myself. Fortunately we still had two eggs left. This is why I don't cook.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Raindrops keep falling...


It's been raining almost non stop here for the past three or four days now.  I actually love the rain, I could stand out in it for hours, if it weren't for one thing: I hate raindrops falling on my head.

But that's ok, because I have a cheap little bucket hat that I wear when it rains (or if I'm out in the yard) that protects my head from sun and water. Even though I look downright silly in the hat, I really like it.

Here's a picture of me in the hat while I was riding my horse down S. 7th to work yesterday...


Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Brangelina, Funerals, and a Vomit Soaked Kitten

Today I learned that I am separated from Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie by 4 degrees. My massage therapist’s best friend’s daughter is one of their assistants. That also means that my cat Shiloh is separated from their daughter Shiloh by only 4 degrees too. Hmm….

I drove past Pioneer Drive Baptist Church this morning and all their parking lots were totally full. I hate when I drive by a church with a full parking lot during a non church and non wedding time. That means there is most likely a funeral. Sad…

Those of you who know us know that our little dog Emma vomits on occasion. It took us forever to find food that would not make her vomit several times a day. Well, she apparently got into the kitten’s food recently, and as a result she has vomited 4 times today (so far). Including once on the kitten! It’s a good thing cats are self cleaning.

Monday, August 18, 2008

what's playing on my ipod monday

I've always liked the Beatles, perhaps because my mom is a bit of a Beatles fanatic, so I grew up listening to them. One of my favorite songs of theirs is Let it Be.

On last season's American Idol, they had a couple of Beatles weeks where each finalist had to sing two Beatles songs. My song selection for this week is the Beatles Let it Be, performed by American Idol finalist Brooke White. As soon as I heard her sing this song on the show I went to itunes and downloaded the full version of the song. Enjoy.


Saturday, August 16, 2008

Christianity and Presidential Politics

Tonight both presidential candidates gave interviews in front of several thousand people at evangelical pastor Rick Warren’s church, Saddleback Church in California. You can read about it here

Like I mentioned in an earlier blog, I am a pro-life democrat. For the first time ever a pro-life democratic politician, Senator Bob Casey of Pennsylvania, will speak at this year’s Democratic National Convention. This is a very big deal. Also, language will likely be added to the party platform that discusses the goal of decreasing the number of abortions, also a big deal.

Of course for many evangelicals, abortion is the issue when deciding who to vote for, but increasingly evangelicals are moving toward other issues as well, such as global poverty and the environment. Because of that, Obama is expected to do much better than past democrats with evangelicals, especially those under 40.

Personally I find all of this very exciting. Anything that gets Christians to reflect on and/or question the long held assumption that the Republican Party (and its policies) is the only political party for Christians is a good thing.

You can watch Obama’s discussion with Rick Warren
here, here, and here

You can watch McCain’s discussion with Rick Warren
here, here, and here

Friday, August 15, 2008

I believe....

in expiration dates. I trust that the milk, eggs, etc people know when their product will go bad. I also go 35 mph on curves. I trust that the engineers know how fast I should go on the curve they designed. But, I digress.

I HATE when milk (or other products) have a sale by date. What good is that? I don’t want to know when I should buy it! I want to know the exact date when the milk goes bad! How else will I know when to throw it out and buy more? And, don’t tell me to sniff it and see if it is still “good”, that is no way to tell. The expiration date is the only way.

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Whew...Finally It's Break Time

So today, I spent all day at a seminar...the who/what/when/why/where aren't important, but I did see something slightly funny. When they released us for the first break 2 hours into the seminar, all of us immediatly wandered outside and stood around. It was here that I noticed something that caught my funny bone. There we were, all standing around outside in little groups, and I was waiting for all of us to whip out our cigarettes and lighters and have ourselves a little smoke break. But alas, that didn't happen. Can you guess what happened instead? That's right, out of unseen pockets everywhere, dozens of mobile phones appeared and became glued to ears.


I have to admit, it made me chuckle. None of us could hardly go two hours without communicating with someone who was not currently with us, and of course I was right there with them. As soon as the break started, I got on the phone and called my office to see how things were going, and I called Amanda for no other reason than to just hear her voice.

When did we really become that culture? We can't seem to go any time at all without using one of these mobile communications centers. I remeber just 10 years ago or so when cell phones were only for the elite and prestigous. Of couse, I'm one of the worst. My phone is set to tell me immediately when an email is sent to me, plus the standard text messages, and facebook checks, and ebay checks, and calendar checks. Ironically the thing I use least about the phone is the phone itself. I'll only use it when absolutly necessary.

Sometimes I question whether I should continue to rely so heavily on these mobile devices that keep me in touch of what's happening at work. It is beginning to blur the line between my work and my home. When I'm on my couch, my phone will "eep" to signify an email from one of our workers in Belgium or Australia or something. Invariably I'll pick up my phone and see what the email is about. Granted, I rarely respond to it right then, but the thing it...I look at it.


An extension of this is that I can sit here on the couch and connect up to my network at the office, and start doing work (assuming I can get the laptop away from Amanda that is). I'll admit that this is a life saver sometimes...When something goes awry at work at 6 in the morning, I can sit in my pyjamas and fix it from here. But the downside is that I could easily continue working past 5pm, all through the evening...and end up putting in another 40 hours in no-time...all from my couch. That's not necessarily a bad thing, except that fact that I would MUCH rather spend those hours with Amanda doing something other than work. It's just that it's so easy; but again, it blurs that all important distinction between my two lives.

I digress.

All this to say, I don't know if mobile phones are a bad thing or a good thing... but I do find it funny.

What do you think?

Marcus, SGB

Monday, August 11, 2008

what's playing on my ipod monday

This week's song is John Cougar Mellencamp's classic Jack and Diane from his American Fool album. I have distinct memories of this song from childhood. I guess my parents really liked it. I'm excited that YouTube has the orginal video for this song. Ah, the 80s.


Monday, August 4, 2008

what's playing on my ipod monday

This week's song selection is John Legend's Ordinary People from his Get Lifted album. John Legend's record label disabled the embedding on all the good youtube videos of the song, so Marcus made this video especially for my blog.

I'm not usually a fan of musicians who play the piano, but I loved this song the very first time I heard it. Enjoy.

Saturday, August 2, 2008

I like......

Last week on Mike Cope’s blog he posted a list called I like. His regular readers had fun with it, so I thought I would give it a try.

Here is my like list:

I like......

Nice people not mean people
Tony Campolo not James Dobson
Coldstone Creamery not Marble Slab
Cold weather not hot weather
CNN not Fox News
Google not Yahoo
Pottery Barn not Crate and Barrel
Obama not McCain
Today Show not Good Morning America
My laptop not any other laptop
Medium well steaks not rare steaks
Excedrin not Tylenol
Thin French fries not thick French fries
Leno not Letterman
Late night not early morning
Tim McGraw not Toby Keith
Shipley’s Donuts not Jack and Jill Donuts
Msnbc.com not abcnews.com
Diversity not sameness
Reading not writing
Grey’s Anatomy not House
Oranges not apples
Large churches not small churches
My current car not my previous car
The Closer not CSI
Facebook not Myspace
Waffles not pancakes
Justice not injustice
Amazon not Barnes and Noble
Tea not coffee
Singing in the car not singing in public
Uncluttered not cluttered

Quilts not comforters
Dasani not Aquafina
Target not Wal-Mart
Equality not inequality

John Steinbeck not Ernest Hemingway
Romantic comedies not potty humor comedies


What about you?

Friday, August 1, 2008

This is what happens when women enter the business world….

So I was reading an article about money saving tips on msnbc.com the other day, and it had a link for an article on money saving tips for new parents. Since I have some friends who are new parents, and some day Marcus and I will be new parents (no, not yet, Mom, Jeanette), I decided to check it out.

The second tip was about using cloth diapers instead of disposable ones. I thought “Ya right, who uses cloth diapers anymore, at least in this country?” The writer suggested just researching cloth diapers a little bit before rejecting them on the spot, since there have been a lot of improvements in them. Well, that piqued my curiosity.

Oh my goodness! Have you seen cloth diapers today? Seriously. They are totally different than the old fashioned safety pin kind. There are all in one diapers, which are a lot like disposable diapers, pocket diapers with absorbent inserts, size adjustable diapers, etc. They have elastic on the legs and back, Velcro or snap closures, adjust for a snugger fit, and come in lots of different colors.
Who knew?




Most of the improvements and recent redesigns of cloth diapers have been made by mothers whose infants could not use disposable diapers due to persistent diaper rash. These were mothers who were busy, many worked outside of the home, and so they wanted cloth diapers that were as convenient as disposable diapers. I am totally impressed with what these women did with cloth diapers.


Marcus and I may use these when we do have a baby (still not yet, Mom, Jeanette). After all, they are quite a bit cheaper than disposable diapers and are much better for the environment. I just wish I knew somebody who was using them now. Maybe I should buy some for Christopher and Landry and let the Delcambres and Duggans try them out first!